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    love is not afeeling

    Post  Nour_Ghost on Fri Mar 27, 2009 6:09 pm

    Love is Not a Feeling. What? You exclaim, of course,
    love is a feeling. I feel it in my chest, stomach and my body tingles
    sometimes. Yes, those are the physiological manifestations when one has
    the sensation of ‘falling in love.’ Falling in love and love are two
    different phenomena. Falling in love can be either a flash of emotions
    or a first step towards genuine love.
    Falling in love is a strong
    instinctive attraction to a person. If it is mutual and both people
    work at their relationship; one day that euphoric experience called,
    ‘falling in love,’ can grow into genuine love.
    The falling in
    love phenomena is the call of one’s longing to belong, to cathect, but
    the object is instinctually chosen according to our ideals, dreams and
    etc., although one may not realize it. We usually fall in love with the
    person’s appearance, with the way she/he walks, the way he/she talks.
    Sometimes we impute to our object of love some mystic illusion, ideal
    qualities and the more we get to know the person the less we fall for
    him or her. That’s when the feeling of love disappears even faster than
    it appeared.
    The more two persons get to know each other, the
    more comfortable they get; the less sharp, bright and exciting the
    falling in love experience is. Some couples continue their
    relationships and get married; some fall apart. It’s reasonable to say
    that more clothes in the closet and one more toothbrush in the bathroom
    is the end of the falling in love phase, but it also can be the
    beginning of genuine love.
    The euphoric feelings we call ‘love’
    is the emotion that accompanies the experience of cathecting.
    Cathecting is the process by which an object becomes important to a
    person. Once cathected, the object, often referred to as a ‘love
    object’ is invested with our energy as if it were a part of oneself,
    and this relationship between oneself and the invested object is called
    a cathexis. One’s cathexis may be fleeting and momentary. Genuine love
    implies commitment and exercise of wisdom. When one is concerned for
    someone’s spiritual and emotional growth, one knows that a lack of
    commitment is likely to be harmful and that commitment to that person
    is probably necessary for one to manifest one’s concern effectively.
    The concern and commitment to another’s spiritual and emotional growth
    is the purest form of love. It is for this reason that commitment is
    the cornerstone of any healthy relationship—friends, significant
    others, husband/wife.
    Genuine love transcends the matter of
    cathexis. When love exists it does so with or without cathexis and with
    or without a loving feeling—those bursts of butterflies in the stomach,
    body tingling, etc.
    It is easier—indeed, it is exhilarating—to
    love with cathexis and the euphoric feeling of love. However, it is
    possible to love without cathexis and without loving feelings, and it
    is in the fulfillment of this possibility that genuine and transcendent
    love is distinguished from simple cathexis. Genuine love is volitional
    rather than euphorically emotional. The person who truly loves does so
    because of ‘a decision to love.’ This person has made a commitment to
    ‘be loving,’ whether or not the loving feelings are present.
    It
    can be difficult and painful to search for evidence of love in one’s
    actions, but because true love is an act of will that transcends
    ephemeral feelings of love or cathexis, it can be said, “Love is as
    love does.” Love and non-love, as good and evil, are objective and not
    purely subjective phenomena.
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    Post  M.SA3D on Mon Mar 30, 2009 11:56 pm

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    Post  Nour_Ghost on Tue Mar 31, 2009 3:05 am

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    الحب
    ليس مجرد عاطفة.ولكن ليس معني ذلك انه مجرد منها حيث ان تلك المشاعر هي ترجمة
    لظاهرة الوقوع في الحب (الاعجاب). وفي الحقيقة الحب والاعجاب ظاهرتين مختلفتين






    الاعجاب
    هو ومضة من العواطف او الخطوة الاولي نحو الحب الحقيقي.وهو تلبية للرغبة في الاشباع
    العاطفي ويكون الاختيار علي اساس افكارنا واحلامنا بالنسبة للشخص الاخر وعادة ما
    يكون الاعجاب بالشخص الاخر عن طريق الاسلوب في التعامل او الطريقة التي يتحدث بها
    و اسلوبه في التفكير ولكن سرعان مايزول هذا الاعجاب مع الوقت






    الحب
    هو ان يصبح الشخص محل اهتمام الاخر .او بمعني اخر هو التزام الشخص في مشاعره للطرف
    الثاني و معالجة الامور بشيء من الحكمةوالذي ينتج عنه النمو الروحي والعاطفي بين
    الطرفين ,فالانسان الذي يحب يفعل ذلك لاسراره علي الحب.
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    Post  M.SA3D on Wed Apr 01, 2009 7:17 pm

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    Post  Nour_Ghost on Wed Apr 01, 2009 8:16 pm

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